PLEASE readers, be patient with me regarding this blog post and the two statements it showcases.
I truly believe that on FRIDAY about 5 PM C.T , most if not all of the participating readers will understand why this blog post is TWO parts long. More participants in the meantime would definitely help me in explaining a phenomena that I think has blossomed in the last ten years.
Both subjects are not so simple. As far as number 2, my almost 90 year old mom lived with us and had the card. Most of the time I’d drive and drop her off and then park in a regular spot to leave a handicap spot for someone who was driving themself to an appt. That’s just me. As for as number one things are changing very quickly, in part because of progressive agenda and the drop in religion by many families. I understand things change, I’m almost 70, but never before did people demand compliance otherwise you were considered a bad person. Also the blurring of appropriate behavior and interaction with children. You want to go to a drag show, fine, but leave the kids at home. Some parents are missing that fine line that needs to exist between parents and kids.
First, very commendable regarding the way you dealt with the handicap parking issue. I agree with most of what you said but especially the parts about demanding compliance (conformity) or you're despicable. I also think parents need to set boundaries based on the maturity level of their kids, not some arbitrary age set by a school board, or even worse state politicians going for political points. All the gender issues are so challenging for adults to sort out not to mention preadolescent kids. When society changes too fast, all we get is angst. Thanks for your comments. I just finished tomorrows blog post, this afternoon. Stay tuned, Mark
I handled handicapped parking that way because I’m inclined to think of others as a natural part of my being and so commendations are not needed. I do think that is the way it should be anyway unless it’s an ancient old man is driving his ancient wife and walking is challenging for him too. Like I said, my Mom had a card for many years and she drove herself most of the time, but when the occasion came that I needed to drive her I dropped her off and then parked in a regular spot. I need the exercise anyway, and even now that she’s gone, I park way out so that I get some walking in and can easily find my car!
It all sounds good to me - especially the " I'm inclined to think of others as a natural part of my being". On so many levels, we are all in this together. Thanks Judy and have a Great Week,
boy, I sure don't agree with number 1. I know there are progressives who brook no equivication on the issues. But if you feel the moral fiber of a country is frayed by people who want everyone to be treated as equals under the law and want children to learn the history of this country which includes Jim Crow and Stonewall, I don't know what to tell you. As for number 2, I have no idea.
Hi JL, I had typed up a response to your comment but it seemed to disappear when I hit the post button. I'll try again below.
I personally don't think I would have ever made either of the "statements" I included UNLESS I was trying to make a point regarding the way we read and respond to things in 2023. I was really hoping to get responses from people across the political spectrum so that a phenomena that I've been noticing would be more recognizable in either variety. Please stay tuned until Friday's blog post - Part 2 and I will explain MY views. I truly believe you will feel better. Thank you for your input and passion, Mark
I will answer my brother: many people, myself included, are freaked out by the rapid change in what we might call “acceptable behavior.” I’m not a MAGA because I’m not prepared to enforce my standards on other people by law, let alone insult them, or kill them. But if we describe as “agenda” my bank teller with hairy forearms counting my cash with shiny purple fingernails; or the latest revival of “My Fair Lady” including a gay Professor Higgins and a trans chorus singing “Get Me to the Church On Time”, I don’t like that agenda either.
I don't personally know any people who use handicap placards on their cars without really needing them. I do know a couple of people who don't look like they need them, but they have heart problems and walking a distance gives them breathing problems. Sometimes looks can be deceiving.
Sorry about that - I'm glad you pointed it out. I made an assumption based on my experiences that most Chris' have been men with one exception (now two). "Funny" how we so frequently make mistakes when we don't remember there's a bigger picture behind every snapshot that we see. We'll hopefully "see" you tomorrow mam
Yeah, I wasn't assuming you did or did not agree with either of these statements. I'm not upset and am looking forward to Friday :)
PLEASE readers, be patient with me regarding this blog post and the two statements it showcases.
I truly believe that on FRIDAY about 5 PM C.T , most if not all of the participating readers will understand why this blog post is TWO parts long. More participants in the meantime would definitely help me in explaining a phenomena that I think has blossomed in the last ten years.
Both subjects are not so simple. As far as number 2, my almost 90 year old mom lived with us and had the card. Most of the time I’d drive and drop her off and then park in a regular spot to leave a handicap spot for someone who was driving themself to an appt. That’s just me. As for as number one things are changing very quickly, in part because of progressive agenda and the drop in religion by many families. I understand things change, I’m almost 70, but never before did people demand compliance otherwise you were considered a bad person. Also the blurring of appropriate behavior and interaction with children. You want to go to a drag show, fine, but leave the kids at home. Some parents are missing that fine line that needs to exist between parents and kids.
First, very commendable regarding the way you dealt with the handicap parking issue. I agree with most of what you said but especially the parts about demanding compliance (conformity) or you're despicable. I also think parents need to set boundaries based on the maturity level of their kids, not some arbitrary age set by a school board, or even worse state politicians going for political points. All the gender issues are so challenging for adults to sort out not to mention preadolescent kids. When society changes too fast, all we get is angst. Thanks for your comments. I just finished tomorrows blog post, this afternoon. Stay tuned, Mark
I handled handicapped parking that way because I’m inclined to think of others as a natural part of my being and so commendations are not needed. I do think that is the way it should be anyway unless it’s an ancient old man is driving his ancient wife and walking is challenging for him too. Like I said, my Mom had a card for many years and she drove herself most of the time, but when the occasion came that I needed to drive her I dropped her off and then parked in a regular spot. I need the exercise anyway, and even now that she’s gone, I park way out so that I get some walking in and can easily find my car!
It all sounds good to me - especially the " I'm inclined to think of others as a natural part of my being". On so many levels, we are all in this together. Thanks Judy and have a Great Week,
Mark
boy, I sure don't agree with number 1. I know there are progressives who brook no equivication on the issues. But if you feel the moral fiber of a country is frayed by people who want everyone to be treated as equals under the law and want children to learn the history of this country which includes Jim Crow and Stonewall, I don't know what to tell you. As for number 2, I have no idea.
Hi JL, I had typed up a response to your comment but it seemed to disappear when I hit the post button. I'll try again below.
I personally don't think I would have ever made either of the "statements" I included UNLESS I was trying to make a point regarding the way we read and respond to things in 2023. I was really hoping to get responses from people across the political spectrum so that a phenomena that I've been noticing would be more recognizable in either variety. Please stay tuned until Friday's blog post - Part 2 and I will explain MY views. I truly believe you will feel better. Thank you for your input and passion, Mark
I will answer my brother: many people, myself included, are freaked out by the rapid change in what we might call “acceptable behavior.” I’m not a MAGA because I’m not prepared to enforce my standards on other people by law, let alone insult them, or kill them. But if we describe as “agenda” my bank teller with hairy forearms counting my cash with shiny purple fingernails; or the latest revival of “My Fair Lady” including a gay Professor Higgins and a trans chorus singing “Get Me to the Church On Time”, I don’t like that agenda either.
Thank you for your comments - they will all be helpful in creating my mosaic
I consider myself a progressive. Would you like to tell me what my agenda is? I didn't realize I had one!
I don't personally know any people who use handicap placards on their cars without really needing them. I do know a couple of people who don't look like they need them, but they have heart problems and walking a distance gives them breathing problems. Sometimes looks can be deceiving.
Thank you very much sir for your thoughts - I will give you mine in a few days - please stay tuned.
That would be "mam", since Chris is short for Christine ;)
Sorry about that - I'm glad you pointed it out. I made an assumption based on my experiences that most Chris' have been men with one exception (now two). "Funny" how we so frequently make mistakes when we don't remember there's a bigger picture behind every snapshot that we see. We'll hopefully "see" you tomorrow mam
No problem :) My b-in-law's name is Chris, too.