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Mark VanLaeys's avatar

There is a subliminal message that we in the US and other wealthy nations get that may not be helpful to our mental health and economic well-being. First, that there is an actual "best" that we should be striving for. The best ice cream. . . the best car, the best job, the best college, the best - you name it.

The second subliminal message is - "You deserve it" or "You deserve nothing but the best." I tried to poo poo both of those subliminal messages.

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Steve Harvester's avatar

Recently I finished a short story by Anton Chekhov in which, with terrible objectivity, he describes a penniless father watching his son starve to death. So I felt the headline this morning more than I would have that of the 44,000 dead from the Somali drought, half are young children. Chekhov 22,000 times. How long can you make your list of stories in which a child gets much less than “the best”? One of Mark’s great phrases is “that’s a First World problem”. As I head to a supremely competent endodontist for root canal work, covered 70% by Medicare and 30% by my well managed 401k and pension, I’m grateful that I’m not worried about who or what is “best”.

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